I’m incredibly blessed to be part of a community of some of the most inspired, inspiring…..and downright fun people I have ever met. These are a group of people with clear missions, passionate visions, who really want to make a dent in the universe through whatever industry they have chosen to devote themselves to.
I’ve been part of many groups and communities but never quite like this one. They are simply awe-inspiring. I could marry them all. If that was legal. And if I didn’t have to live with them all…or do stuff married people do….well you get it: the point is I just love them to bits.
BUT…..just between you and I, there is one little thing that worries me sometimes. I listen to these huge inspiring plans to change the world – some bigger than my peripheral vision will stretch – and I have no doubt many will do just as they plan to do. And more. But here is what I can’t help thinking…………
…..what if you die tomorrow?
Now before you think I’m being dramatic or morbid just remember that every day I talk to and work with people who have lost someone they love. And very often this is an unexpected death, a death ‘too early’, a death ‘before their time’. A death of someone who didn’t get to do all they planned. So I tend to look at things a little differently and have a heightened awareness of the fact that it could end any day. For any one of us.
So if you have amazing plans to change the world, if every day you look in the mirror and tell yourself the difference you are making and going to make…..what happens if it all ends tomorrow and you don’t get to do it? Would that mean you haven’t changed the world? Would that mean you didn’t do what you were here to do? Seriously, would you feel as proud of the achievements you’ve already made as you will be of the ones you plan to make?
Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not suggesting for a second that you don’t make those big plans. By all means, make them even bigger! That isn’t my point. My point is that I worry that people say they are ‘going to’ change the world…..and that they don’t think they have already. And that breaks my heart.
How many people do you have to have helped before you’ve officially changed the world? Have many books or articles have to have been written about you? How many people have to know your name before you are considered a world-changer, a thought-leader, a star?
Want my answer? One. You only have to have changed one person’s life to have changed the world. Don’t imagine that once you do a, b and c you will then have made an impact on this planet. You have already done it. You do it every single day of your existence.
There are people out there who, if asked who has made a difference in their life, who has touched them, helped them, taught them, loved them, would name you. There are people who would not be where they are without you. There may even be people who would not exist had it not been for you (hands up all parents).
Every day of your life, like it or not, try or not, you have impacted the lives of others. And the impact you have had on their lives will affect the impact they have on the lives of others…and so on. I’ve learnt in the past year that some of the people who made the biggest impact in my life had no idea that they had. And I bet you don’t either. I bet you underestimate just exactly how much you’ve changed the world already. Well….stop it.
If your life flashed before your eyes or you were on your proverbial death-bed and reflecting on your life…who would you be thinking about? Richard Branson? Oprah? Steve Jobs? Or would it be your mum, your best friend, a teacher that taught you to believe in yourself, the first guy or gal who you fell in love with, the person who stuck up for you, the person who helped you up the last time you fell down?
One of the lives that you’ve changed may well have been mine. And to me that means that despite the fact that Oprah is my hero…she hasn’t had anywhere near the impact you have. Not on my world.
So make your plans to change the world in huge ways….and go out and do that…I’m 100% behind you. But always remember the difference you have made already, the difference you make every single freakin’ day. So that no matter what happens in your life you know, with absolute certainty, that you have touched this planet. In a massive way. Because you truly have.
And hey, surely it’s easier to go out and change the world when you realise that actually…….you’ve been doing it all along.
xx
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